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My b/f.
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I hate my breasts. There only an A34 and I don't have a beautiful body. I'm scared to let my b/f touch me. I'm not ready to be touched and stuff yet, but even if I was, I'd be scared. I'm afraid he's gonna feel them and think omg...is that all you are?? I wear a B34 cup size because 1 breast is a little bigger than the other, but that cup size is also a little big. Anyway they make a lot of a difference but when we get to the sex level he's not gonna wanna do anything with me because of that, I just know it. I'm 5'1 and weigh 110 pounds, I know I'm small but I think a small B wouldn't look bad on me. I am jealous of other women I see my age bigger than me or even worse. They younger than me and they bigger. I am 21, but I don't look it. I thought about implants but don't want them for good reasons. I eat alot but I'm still small. My body's not really an issue even, it's mainly just my breasts. They been buggin me since I was a teen growing up so it's hard to get over this. Women with a B and C cup size have beautiful bodies and women with an A like me or even less they don't have beautiful bodies, they might have nice features, but what about body attraction? What am I gonna do if he doesn't wanna get intimate with me???

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What kind of guy wouldn't want to do stuff with you coz you have small boobs?  If he has any feelings for you whatsoever it shouldn't be a problem dw

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I have some of the same kinds of feelings as you.  I'm 17 and am 34A (and not "full a" either), and I doubt I'm going to grow anymore.  I think the best thing you can do is hope that you find a guy that will still like you for who you are, not for the amount of fat you have on your chest.  But I would love to hear some guys' opinions on the issue since most of the people who tell you not to worry are other girls...

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Well he is your boyfriend and he loves you. You have to keep that in mind. Just tell him what your feeling. He might just look past your breasts. Many people come in all shapes and sizes and you shouldn't let that get in your way. If he is any kind of a boyfriend he would listen to you and respect your feelings. Don't pressure yourself into doing something your not ready to do.

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If a guy wouldn't want to be with you because of your boobs than he isn't worth your time.

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Quote: from 7hir7een at 2:50 am on Aug. 13, 2006

I have some of the same kinds of feelings as you.  I'm 17 and am 34A (and not "full a" either), and I doubt I'm going to grow anymore.  I think the best thing you can do is hope that you find a guy that will still like you for who you are, not for the amount of fat you have on your chest.  But I would love to hear some guys' opinions on the issue since most of the people who tell you not to worry are other girls...

You still have time to grow tho, I don't. Breasts are a beautiful part of a woman's body and men don't have them, so I don't blame guys for liking them and for not wanting to get intimate with a woman because of that. It's understandable, just kinda hurting.

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It can give a small benefit anyway, knowing that you have a better way of knowing who the good men are. If men can not like you for the way you are, then they are not worth wasting you time with anyway.

When it comes down to having sex, your breasts are not going to become the centre of attention. If you are capable of performing, then what more could you want? You could have a little more time to grow, but having bigger breasts does not make you any less of a woman.

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Belive it or not, some uys prefer smaller boobs becuase the girl is usually skinnier...

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hahahah i read the first few words and pissed my self get a life or if you have rich parents get a tit job and tell em to sort ya face out while their at it!

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Quote: from mr blue eyes at 5:50 pm on Aug. 13, 2006

hahahah i read the first few words and pissed my self get a life or if you have rich parents get a tit job and tell em to sort ya face out while their at it!

no, you get a life.  Women aren't some plastic dolls that need to be molded into better shape if they don't have what it takes to be a barbie doll. Asshole.

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Quote: from Flow Morphia Slow at 3:12 pm on Aug. 16, 2006

Quote: from mr blue eyes at 5:50 pm on Aug. 13, 2006

hahahah i read the first few words and pissed my self get a life or if you have rich parents get a tit job and tell em to sort ya face out while their at it!

no, you get a life.  Women aren't some plastic dolls that need to be molded into better shape if they don't have what it takes to be a barbie doll. Asshole.


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i have a 34 A to and i knew the guy i was with at the time prefered big breasts, but ud be supprised how much an A cup can fill up a hand. it gave him just enough to grab onto and he was extremely happy. if ur bf dosent want u because of ur small tits their are many other bois out there who will

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Kool. But does your b/f have small hands? Mine has big ones. Or medium sized hands. My hands are small and they can fit on my whole breast. An A34 is small and I have small hands so ya. My ex b/f had medium hands. My breasts were ok for him. Some guys if they have big hands then they wouldn't want a woman with tiny breasts would they? My b/f claims he likes them, but there's a doubt I'd say. Guys love boobs. Well not humungas ones. But from a B to a C or a D atleast. And the thing is all you girls who complain like me about small breasts you guys shouldn't worry cause you could still grow if your not in your early twenties like me.

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You're really approaching this the wrong way. You have the perception that guys walk around sizing up women, and pick the ones based on our ideal body parts. Maybe if the world was only 10% male then we could be that selective. The fact is, most guys don't care; we like the whole package because it's you. That means loving you because of your imperfections, not in spite of them. If I had a choice my girlfriend would wear a 34A bra, but the girl that I fell in love with is bigger than that. Do I avoid them because they are not the"ideal" breast size. Of course not! When we are intimate we enjoy each other completely and her size is the last thing on my mind. If you are avoiding certain aspects of your relationship solely because you can't get over an image problem, you will continue to deny your boyfriend(s) the opportunity to show you how much he cares for you, all of you.

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Well maybe thats how it's suppose to be, but here it's not like that. Guys go for looks too, and probably it's important to them. Where your at, things are probably the right way. Whereas men like women for them and not for 1 or 2 things only. But looks matter also, I gotto admitt. Like if I was a guy I couldn't be with a flat chested woman. That would be a NO-NO. I dunno how some guys don't care. Honestly.

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