Post edited at 11:04 pm on May 27, 2008 by PennyandMe

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Orgy?

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But seriously, college people tend to not give a shit if you said "hey we are going to fuck tonight so just fyi" - they would simply say ok have fun. If they didn't want to be there then they'd go out. If they didn't care, oh well.

That's college life for ya, you aren't the only one in your situation. You gotta do what you gotta do.

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smd

"I can stop peeing I gots skillzthatkillz"

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can't you take turns to stay at your boyfriends'

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My roommate and I both have boyfriends and they are both over quite a bit.  We have managed to make this work and the four of us get along well... the guys even sleep in our room a lot of the time but sex isn't even in the equation when we're all here so i have to agree with:
Quote: from yesnoyes at 3:49 pm on April 6, 2008

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can't you take turns to stay at your boyfriends'

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and if this would help the situation then go for it!

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So you both communicate well about this, like say "Hey, my BF is staying the night." OR "Hey, we want some private time tonight. Is that ok?"

Is it awkward to have all 4 sleeping in the same room??  Has there ever been a time when you heard stuff you didnt want to?  Like obviously sex is a no-no, but what if they are heavily making out?

You are missing a lot by saying you don't have sex when you four are there at the same time .  Nothing makes sex hotter and  more exciting than having another couple doing it in the same room. By college age sex shouldn't have to be only in secrecy.