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im so sad right now. no one cares about ME - no one ever calls to see how im doing or anything..they only call when they need something, they need suppot, they need advice! im there. im ALWAYS there. but you know what happened this weekend -
so my cousin and i are both friends with this one guy, mike. she and mike are much closer than he and i are, but we are still pretty good friends (well at least i thought we were). my cousin and mike were supposed to go to dinner with mike's bro and his gf last night. (btw, i was supposed to go out with my cousin, but she ditched me to go out with mike) After helping her get dressed, and staying with her until mike came to pick her up, i called my friend to see what she was up to. while talking to her, i found out that their little dinner was not so little, and involved quite a few people. i was like, omgd i gotta tell my cousin so she doesnt get surprised. i texted her that there were going to be more people there and that i was a little offended that i was not invited. two seconds later mike calls me to invite me. FUCK YOU. dont BROADCAST my text message. they both knew what was going on and invited people, but NOT ME. NO ONE TOLD ME TO COME.
im always there to help them deal, ALWAYS - I ALWAYS LISTEN AND GIVE ADVICE. whatever. after not answering their calls, i decided to not be a cry baby and answered their calls. i met up with them, and put on a smile.
i feel abused

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No one cares bout me either hun. Life sucks, you learn to deal.

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Maybe you should find new people to befriend and hang out with.
Personally, I wouldn't have accepted their invite, but that's just me. I really hate when I'm the last person invited, and I'm online invited because I found out about the get together.
Just remember that there are options other than accepting their invitation. If they don't want to spend time with you, don't spend time with them. They're not worth it.

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i know where your coming from and if it helps most people suck =] but if you ever need to talk to someone you can send me a message

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I think you should talk to them about it, dont pretend to be okay when you're not.
be blunt if you have to, just get your point across, make sure to tell them how you feel

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i know the feeling. currently my band is hanging out at our lead guitarists place. they didn't even offer to pick me up like they usually do. awesome.

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Quote: from TashaTiffany at 7:26 pm on Mar. 2, 2008

No one cares bout me either hun. Life sucks, you learn to deal.

Like you fucking say that. Who gives a shuit if no one cares about you, this isn't about YOU, its about the OP. And you shouldn't have to learn to deal.


OP- I know exactly how you feel, I basically feel like that every day, its insane, and you are being abused and taken advantedge of. why don' tyou stand up for yourself? chances are people will call you a bitch and shit but who cares, nobody deserves to be used like that. you're a wonderful person even if you dont believe it, you're just in a bad situation right now. let others know you aren' tgoin gto put up with this crap anymore and demand they strat treating you better. you aren't dr.phil, you aren't their therapist.

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im here to talk if you need me =]

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Don't say that.. no matter what, there's always someone somewhere that cares about you..  Sorry about your event.... that was just cruel of your cousin to do.. >.<

It's good that you listen and give advice to your friends though, long as they're there for you when you need it.. Here to talk to if yah want. ^^

I agree with Irony on this though, you should try and find some new friends.. Sure you'll find some true respectful people if you look hard enough. ;)


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Quote: from The Lure Of The Sea at 9:29 pm on Mar. 2, 2008

Quote: from TashaTiffany at 7:26 pm on Mar. 2, 2008

No one cares bout me either hun. Life sucks, you learn to deal.
 

Like you fucking say that. Who gives a shuit if no one cares about you, this isn't about YOU, its about the OP. And you shouldn't have to learn to deal.  

 
OP- I know exactly how you feel, I basically feel like that every day, its insane, and you are being abused and taken advantedge of. why don' tyou stand up for yourself? chances are people will call you a bitch and shit but who cares, nobody deserves to be used like that. you're a wonderful person even if you dont believe it, you're just in a bad situation right now. let others know you aren' tgoin gto put up with this crap anymore and demand they strat treating you better. you aren't dr.phil, you aren't their therapist.


I've been through almost the exact same things, but worse, and I've had to learn to deal, so fuck off.

Post edited at 7:34 pm on Mar. 2, 2008 by TashaTiffany

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Quote: from TashaTiffany at 7:31 pm on Mar. 2, 2008

I've had to learn to deal, and no one cares, so fuck off.

How about we focus on the person who made the topic instead of fighting each other.. it's not going to help her get through her problem.. =.=

People care about you as well Tasha, whether you believe it or not..


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Quote: from Alexion at 9:35 pm on Mar. 2, 2008

Quote: from TashaTiffany at 7:31 pm on Mar. 2, 2008

I've had to learn to deal, and no one cares, so fuck off.

How about we focus on the person who made the topic instead of fighting each other.. it's not going to help her get through her problem.. =.=

People care about you as well Tasha, whether you believe it or not..


Well when no one is ever there for me, thats hard to believe.
But whatever, enough about me, focus on the OP.

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hey tasha - i thought the same way, but with just one post i got the most love ive seen in a while. people care - we just cant see it sometimes.
thanks everyone, even though im still sad, you have no idea how much better you make me feel. thanks.

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