First off, lemme say that sometimes I fail to see the obvious, and this could very well be one of those times. I've just been wondering, why is it frowned upon to type a member's username in an eHelp reply? If they're not marked anonymous, then all of LW can read them, and will automatically know who submitted the eHelp anyway. If it's anonymous... Well, not even mods can see who really submitted an anonymous eHelp, so that really can't apply here.
So really, why's it frowned upon? Unless it's meant that you shouldn't use a member's real name. In which case I completely understand.
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