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Oh my turn-ons/offs.
8. Hooped Earrings - Enough said, the girls I find attractive and pay the most attention to always seem to have hooped earrings on, whether they be large or small it somewhat completes them to my taste.
(Edited by XxCrazyDawg69xX at 4:20 am on July 16, 2004)

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1)Shaved areas. I think its exciting and erotic to see areas where girls have shaved (arms pits, legs, down there etc)

2) Round breasts. I don't care for DD's nor a flat rate. They don't have to be perfect, but I like them preferrably round.

3) Tan lines. Seeing tan lines where the girls thong was or even on their arms is also exciting for me.

4) Stomach. I like a stomach that is slightly chubby. Don't know why.

5) Straightforward. I like a girl that isn't too shy and is honest with me about her feelings and evertying else there is to be honest about, of course she can still have her secrets.

6) Nice long sweet kisses

7) Seeing the cloth of panties tighten between the legs of a girl when she does certain movements

No others :-/

Turnoffs

1) When the girl is REALLY hairy down there.

2) When the girl is really hairy anywhere else. It's chill if she doesn't feel like shaving every day but once in a while is nice

3) Hygiene. I like my girls clean

4) Really tight thin and small g-strings. I hate the ones that are soo small with a real fishing-string length string.

5) Dried slime on her panties from getting turned on.

6) Fake/too large breasts, or too small.

7) can't think of any now, ill edit later

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Quote: from XxCrazyDawg69xX at 1:15 am on July 16, 2004

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Oh my turn-ons/offs.
8. Hooped Earrings - Enough said, the girls I find attractive and pay the most attention to always seem to have hooped earrings on, whether they be large or small it somewhat completes them to my taste.
(Edited by XxCrazyDawg69xX at 4:20 am on July 16, 2004)

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There is something strange about looped earings that turns me on. They r kinda like hooker earings but they r so sexy.

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Well, I wouldn't call the "hooker" earrings, but I understand the your point.  I don't know what it is about them, but they are so sexy.

1. Someone who is intensly, passionatly into music. Music is life... I literally listen to it everywhere, in the car, on the beach , at work, at school, in  the shower, on the street... a guy who is in to music is very attractive. Although he doesn't have to share the same musical tastes as me, I'd like him to have tastes I can respect e.g. not confined to the charts.

2. Someone who reads. I don't care if they read Nick Hornby or TS Elliot, reading is sexy. I read widely and I like a man I can hold an intelligent conversation with.

3. Someone with a car who can drive: simply because I can't.

4. Someone tall. Tall men make me feel really petite and feminine and kinda cute (I'm five foot six, so not short...)

5. Someone happy. No-one can be happy all the time but I'm prone to depression so it's good for me to be with someone who just generally enjoys life.

6. Someone with ambition. I have goals and dreams and I want to fufill them. A guy has to be driven... daytime tv addicts aren't attractive.

7. Someone with sharp facial structure. I like a man with a strong jaw and defined cheek bones. In my opinion, people don't put enough emphasis on faces. Pretty faces are worth so much more then a good body...

8. Having said that... Someone well-built. I'm not a big torso girl, but I have a thing about chunky shoulders and toned arms. Overt muscles aren't nice but I like a man that looks like a man, not a little boy.

9. Someone funny. I like to laugh. Enough said.

10. Someone with that spark that you can't put your finger on. They might not be that good looking, that fit, that clever or funny, but the way they smile or talk to me or something just has me hooked.

Turn-offs:

1. Arrogance. You scored the last touch-down/think you're really fit... guess what, I couldn't care less.

2. Having said that... total lack of self-esteem. You keep telling me you're ugly. That you never get the girl. You know what, I hadn't noticed before, but now that you mention it...
Confidence NOT arrogence is attractive.

3. A complete lack of style. Twelve pairs of Adidas sweats does not a wardrobe make.

4. Sickly skinny boys. I'm slim, not skinny (a US size 5, UK 8/10). You make me feel fat.

5. Short boys... towering over you brings out my masculine streak...

6. Extreme acne. Everyone gets spots. Acne isn't your fault. No-one cares about a few pimples and you'll grow out of them. BUT when a boy is covered in red angry spots from head to toe so I can't see his skintone its just too much...

7. Stupidity. Education is free and compulsory until 16. What's your excuse?

8. Expecting me to make the move. It's the 21st centary. I can kiss you or tell you I love you first but guess what? I'm traditional and proud. I'll respect you for your courage...

9. Clingy boys. I have a life. And after one date it doesn't revolve around you, suprisingly.

10. Easy boys lol. I like a challenge. So if you want me, don't tell me. Not right away. I like to work for it, if you're worth it.

Yeah I'm not picky...

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Who knows the answers? Who do you trust? I can't even separate love from lust. Sarah
Me, you and forever

Sense of Humor- I love it when a guy can make me laugh. I love to laugh, smile and have a good time and if I can do that with my guy its always a good time. At the same time I don't want a guy that is always funny and does not know what its time to be serious. Which being serious all the time is no fun but there are times when its necessary.

Chivalrous-  One who opens doors, is such a huge turn-on. He doesn't have to open car doors or something like that but when your going into a place and he opens it so you can walk in, is the best. I really find that sooo attractive. Also a guy who will just hold my hand and smile is a HUGE turn on.

Guys, Guy w/ a little bit of a Sensitive Side-  I live for a guy to be able to be a guy. I like for a guy to know about things that I wouldn't persay know.. like about cars, sports and how to fix things .. you know the stereotype of manly man. Lol What I mean is I don't want to have to fight him for time in front of the mirror. I like a guy that will be able to be protective.

Romantic/Kind-  I like for a guy to be sweet and thoughtful- remember the small things is always a plus.  I can at times be a little clingy.. so I like it if my guy is somewhat clingy too. I like to hear that he needs me and loves me. I like a guy to be well mannered and polite to other people.

Opinionated/Expressive- isn't afraid to tell me how he is feeling and is able to open up to me to me with problems. I want a guy that will have his own set of opinions but at the same time is able to back up his argument with  knowledge.

Trustworthy/ Honest- A guy that isn't afraid to tell me what he thinks is a good thing * in moderation. I don't mean that he should tell me "hey your being a pain in the ass" but someone who isn't afraid to be honest when I'm asking for advice and is sometimes willing to tell me things that I might not want to hear. Being trustworthy is a big thing, when I'm dating someone I want to be able to trust them with things I wouldn't just tell anyone. The street goes both ways, and I want him to be able to trust me with things he wouldn't tell everyone.

Knowledge- Knowledge is power, and if you can teach me something new.. that's great. I'm always up to learning new things.

Interests- It is cool if a guy has a crazy passion that just makes him happy.. Whether its playing the guitar, fixing up cars, or stamp collecting.. its cool with me.

Appearance Wise- I like a guy that can dress up when needed but is able to just dress down most of the time.. with loose fitting jeans, and just a shirt/t-shirt. Another thing I like is a baseball cap..they look good on most people. Lol I always like eyes, so eyes that are light colored or even just look like they have something behind them.. lol I dunno its really hard to describe so I'll leave it at "Eyes" . Being taller than I am *5'5* is a plus.

Turn Offs

Closed Minded - it's a turn off if he always has be right. I'll give credit when credit is due but don't be afraid to step outside of the box.

Liars- Need you say more? I can't stand being lied to, been there, and hopefully never have to go there again. I won't lie to you don't lie to me.

Too Girly- A guy that is more up on fashion than I am. One that fights me for bathroom time. Its good to take care of yourself and be well groomed but dont be more of girl than I am.  

Inconsiderate/Rude- One who only thinks about himself and what he can get out of a situation. And someone who is just vulgar all the time.

No drive/goals or interests - I don't know what I want to do with the rest of my life and its okay if a guy doesn't either but at the same time I have goals I want to achieve and dreams so its nice if guy does too. What I mean is a guy that has no dreams, hopes and is satisfied with okay when he can have great.  

In it for the physical aspect- If that's all you want from me, then I'm not the girl for you.. The love em'and leave em' type.

Always needs to be in control- Its good for him to take control of situations some of the time but if he comes across as bossy and arrogant.. its not a turn on.

Cockyness.. Confidence is a good thing..but there is a big difference between being confident and cocky

Doesn't let me pay lol I don't know what you would call that.. but I want a guy that it won't hurt his ego if I pay for things

Wow okay I think I typed a lot.. lol And that's a lot to expect from one person but hopefully one day I'll find the one that will sweep me off my feet. Plus this is just a list of things that I find attractive..and unattractive doesn't mean one person has to have every little thing on here..  oh yea, this was harder than I thought.. I have an idea of what it is that are turn on and offs but typing them out was harder than I thought. Lol

(Edited by votedmosthuggable at 4:03 pm on July 17, 2004)

(Edited by votedmosthuggable at 4:22 pm on July 17, 2004)

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And if I could hold on
Through the tears and the laughter
Would it be beautiful?

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Top 10 Turn Ons:

8. Conservative: I just don't like conservatives. Conservatives always think of the short run, and often help out the rich, but in the end (only a few years after decisions usually) they end up more in the hole than when they started.
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I wish people would stop making assumptions like that on every conservative they meet...I'm a conservative girl and I like to think on the long term of things like what will happen after I'm dead. I really don't care about money or being rich. I do care about moral issues, though. I am not some snobby girl who is rich and always had the best of things...I actually am quite the opposite and I love diversity. I just wish people would stop making assumptions like that.

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I hate Loving you

Turn offs
1. is mean: unfriendly, stuck up, rude etc.
2. fat girls
3. stupidity
4. horrible hair
5. bad taste in fashion
6. girls that think they r the finest thing in the world: its okay to have confidence and feel good about how u look but dont go around acting like ur the finest girl in the world i,  want to be the one telling the girl she looks good not her telling me she looks good
7.extremely huge or fake tits: come on i dont want a girl with plastic surgery and stuff i want natural beauty no artificial stuff and big boobs saggs and r gross "grandma tits"
8. boring girls
9. two faced girls
10. no self esteem: thinks their ugly, always looks sad. u know what if u think ur ugly then ur ugly im sick of all of u low self esteemno confidence girls

Turn Offs:

1. Does drugs
2. Smokes
3. Drinks
4. Dresses real Ghetto
5. Un-polite
6. Bad breath
7. Bad mouthed
8. Dominating
9. Can't dress
10. Smells

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"I can accept failure, but I can't accept not trying."
-Michael Jordan

1 skaters... i dont know, theres something about them.
2 short hair, or a shag.
3 when someone isnt afraid to be seen with you.
4 romantic stuff, sentimental and such.
5 writing notes
6 talking about the good things we've done together in the past
7 any hair but black
8 beautiful eyes...
9 a guy who will brush my hair out of my eyes and put it behind my ear
10 when a guy can see me without any makeup and still tell me im beautiful... (kyal i love you)

turn offs

1 liars
2 cheaters
3 assholes
4 druggies
5 guys that dont care about anything
6 a guy that only wants sex
7 when he's a different person around his friends
8 a guy who ignores me
9 guy that cares too much about looks
10 when you can never get ahold of them..

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am i the only one who hears the tears run down my face?*

*forever and for always*