( Lillylove )
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We are stuck with our dorm rooms and can't afford to go elsewhere. My room mate and her boy friend don't mind someone else in the room but the guy I'm dating at the moment is very shy and inhibited. He insists on the covers being over us and won't let me get on top and he won't get very active, only wants to do it quietly. Will he get over it and is there anything I can say or do to help him? I'm getting frustrated because he won't be active. What do others do in this situation?
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PinkLotus
Dairy Product Addict
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Go somewhere, save for a hotel room?
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lmc11591
Connoisseur
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go somewhere private. how about that?
------- look, i'm woody! howdy, howdy, howdy!
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greeneyedone
PM 4 NDZ
Patron
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It is sex. It is a personal thing. You cant expect him to change because you cant go anywhere else. Just wait til she leaves.
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Metacarpi
Guru
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Do it in the bathroom. Or ask your room mate to leave for like half an hour.
------- MushroomSatsujin is the only one I never faked it with. "I think everybody's nuts." - Johnny Depp 11
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effyouseakay
Connoisseur
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Handcuff him and take charge!
------- "Safe sex is great sex. Better wear a latex cause you don't want that late text. That I think I'm late text. So wrap it up."
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Ashley91
Novice
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go to a park and do it there at night i do omg its so fun.
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chicklover
Dairy Product Addict
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go to his room and kick his roommate out??
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brunettechic
Soothsayer
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Try and get to the room while your roommate is in class or out with her boyfriend.
------- Live it up!
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( Lillylove )
Dairy Product Addict
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It isn't all that simple or else we would have solved the problem by now. Her boyfriend lives at home, the guy I'm dating rooms with three other guys. We aren't into quickies so we are talking about an afternoon, an evening or a night, especially on week ends. My guy will just have to adjust and get used to it but I don't know what to do to hurry it up. It bothered me at first but I realized we paid no attention to one another so it didn't matter and I just pretended they weren't there..
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shea399
Grasshopper
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Meet over summer vacation instead of being pressured to do it in the dorm room
------- It's all fun and games until somebody gets hurt. Then it's hilarious.
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