then, i saw her the other day, but she was with another guy. i guess they're like in the "dating" stage right now where they aren't really bf/gf. but they were hugging and holding hands and stuff.

now, i was confused because at the same time, she would come over to me and want me to hold her hand and she was kissing me on the neck and stuff. is it too late for me to win her over or should i let her go or what?

Dont hurt the other guy though by trying to win her. Its unfair, and theres nothing worse, imagine yourself if you were in a relationship and your gf dumped you for someone else.

For starters though, affection is not a prize for you to win. Competition is certainly the most foolish way towards the issue. Its her decision though, and leave it to her to decide . . .

Try not to let it bother you. From what I can tell, I don't really seem to respect this person much.

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The key to victory is the element of surprise.
When that doesn't work, I guess I just gotta gun you down.