PeopleGalleryZombiesFrolfProf ReviewsDictionaryBuy/SellForumsMovies

Sign In | Join


  » DormWire / Teen Forums / Teen Depression & Emotional Imbalance / Viewing Topic

What happens if you've been raped?
Replies: 32Last Post Aug. 28, 2008 1:23pm by moonandstars

(+) New Topic   (+) New Poll (+) Add Reply
Pages: 1 2 3  Next » Email Print Favorite
Althalus

Advisor
Reply
Quote: from The Fantasy at 12:48 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

They look for the dude.

thats sexist

if you get raped, you get up dust yourself off as for a tip and go home thinking it was a good day

-------
If my shame spills our worth across this floor
Then tonight, goodnight... I'm burning Star IV


12:50 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined Sep. 2007 | 36 Days Active
Join to learn more about Althalus Ireland | Straight Male | 1313 Posts | 691 Points
katyduck


mr bean on crack

Patron
Support Leader
Reply
They do a rape kit with you - DNA swabs and whatnot, searching for bruising and taking photographic evidence of it. They take a highly detailed statement from you, asking for very specific details. They check for witnesses, and CCTV footage in the area if applicable. They search their database for sexual predators in the area, and track their whereabouts. Then they pool all the information together and (supposedly) try and track someone down.

-------
"God kissed her on the cheek and there she was."

12:50 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined June 2004 | 1178 Days Active
Join to learn more about katyduck Wales | Straight Female | 13855 Posts | 34845 Points
BeautifulLies82


Visionary
Reply
They ask you questions about what happened and do a rape kit. It may be scary but if you want your rapist behind bars, it makes a HUGE difference. It can be scary coming forward, but very very important.

-------
I wish for a place where the earth doesn't shake,
and if the earth won't be still then you and I will.

12:51 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined Jan. 2006 | 454 Days Active
Join to learn more about BeautifulLies82 Maine, United States | Straight Female | 4088 Posts | 9114 Points
Rebeccahh


Grasshopper
Reply
they put him in jail?

12:51 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined Aug. 2008 | 1 Days Active
Join to learn more about Rebeccahh Ontario, Canada | Straight Female | 30 Posts | 41 Points
jamesshadowwolf

Advisor
Reply
the police ask a bunch of questions.. and they will try to get evidence and eventually find him and either put a restrainning order from you or he goes to jail. depending on age.

-------
Cheack out My Help Site i Made.
support4teens

12:52 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined Aug. 2008 | 54 Days Active
Join to learn more about jamesshadowwolf Ontario, Canada | Straight Male | 1128 Posts | 643 Points
fouad


Enlightened One
Reply
they take teh rapist to jail

-------
Jenintendo is Proudly my LW WIFE!

12:52 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined Nov. 2006 | 277 Days Active
Join to learn more about fouad Lebanon | Gay Male | 10811 Posts | 16183 Points
( Anonymous )

Reply
Quote: from SNC 1992 at 12:50 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

Well you would call the police and give them all the information you know about the rapist. Then they will put out a search for him and when he is found you'd both have to get taken to court to explain what happened, if they find him guily he'd get put in jail.

Would I have to explain infront of everyone?

What's a rape kit?


12:52 pm on Aug. 28, 2008
marshmellowman



Sign in to see more information
Reply
Quote: from Trash at 8:48 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

They get put in jail depending on age and whether they catch the person.
It's not really that simple.

There's usually a trial, and it depends on the evidence. Whether there's evidence of non-consensual sex on the vagina, semen sample in the uterus, evidence around the crime scene, etc.

The police try to look for a DNA match in the criminal database if they find a usable sample perhaps from a pubic hair or if semen was found in the vagina. They look for potential suspects who might have been around that area or who might have done this, perhaps they find a match from a DNA sample or if the person who was raped might be able to describe the face of the person for facial identification.

They then build a case and prosecute the witness if they think they have enough evidence. If you can identify the witness you also might have to testify in court.

It's quite complicated and even my recounts are oversimplified.

The jury will deliberate once the evidence has been presented and a witness (if any) may be cross-examined by the defense. They come up with a verdict whether guilty or not, and then the judge sentences the person.

-------
To find yourself, think for yourself.


12:52 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined Feb. 2007 | 563 Days Active
Join to learn more about marshmellowman England, United Kingdom | Straight Male | 16544 Posts | 30715 Points
RubberTrees


Soothsayer

Sustainer
Reply
If you get raped, they'll take samples from your vagina and mouth.  They'll try to find as much semen and hair as possible, and look to see if your uterus and cervix have been injured in any way.  Then they'll get you a therapist to talk about what's happened.  Sometimes they bring you back for an update, so you can explain your story, and ask if you know the man.  If you know who raped you, they'll do DNA tests to match.  However, if you don't know, they'll usually search rapists who have been released from prison and live close by.  

Have you been raped?

-------
Look up from the sidewalk.
Please.

My lover


12:52 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined April 2008 | 238 Days Active
Join to learn more about RubberTrees New Jersey, United States | Asexual Female | 5748 Posts | 10130 Points
Althalus

Advisor
Reply
no you wouldnt and a rape kit is a proceeure where they swab for semen and look for forced entry etc.d

-------
If my shame spills our worth across this floor
Then tonight, goodnight... I'm burning Star IV

12:52 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined Sep. 2007 | 36 Days Active
Join to learn more about Althalus Ireland | Straight Male | 1313 Posts | 691 Points
countryLuv


Quality Control Engineer
Reply
they would do a test that says if youve had forced sex and then they will look for epithelials of the man or any prints he left it wont hurt then they will do a search to match the guy in all the data bases and get a worrent for his arrest

-------
im in love with him

12:56 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 49 Days Active
Join to learn more about countryLuv Texas, United States | 426 Posts | 950 Points
Post from this position was omitted due to content violations
Post from this position was omitted due to content violations
( Anonymous )

Reply
Quote: from RubberTrees at 12:52 pm on Aug. 28, 2008

If you get raped, they'll take samples from your vagina and mouth. They'll try to find as much semen and hair as possible, and look to see if your uterus and cervix have been injured in any way. Then they'll get you a therapist to talk about what's happened. Sometimes they bring you back for an update, so you can explain your story, and ask if you know the man. If you know who raped you, they'll do DNA tests to match. However, if you don't know, they'll usually search rapists who have been released from prison and live close by.

Have you been raped?


Yes.
But I don't wanna tell anyone. I know it means he's still out there & other people are in danger but I can't bring myself to tell my mum & I don't know how to go to the police myself, well I do, I just don't want to.

 


1:03 pm on Aug. 28, 2008
robdude


nicest guy ever!

Sustainer
Reply
They do get put in jail , and stay there, if they can't post bond.

1:03 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 | Joined Feb. 2006 | 419 Days Active
Join to learn more about robdude Pennsylvania, United States | Label Free Male | 15598 Posts | 30577 Points
Pages: 1 2 3  Next » Email Print Favorite
(+) New Topic   (+) New Poll (+) Add Reply

Quick Reply

You are signed in as our guest.

Looking for something else?
 

  » DormWire / Teen Forums / Teen Depression & Emotional Imbalance / Viewing Topic



  © 2009 DormWire | Custom Web Hosting | Terms of Use | Site Map | Contact | FAQ