She said it so freely you know? I feel like she's just doing this for attention. When I responded with, "Who was it? I'll choke him," she actually smiled and giggled and said "are you okay?"

I feel like shes just trying to see if I'm protective of her or not? For some reason, I'm not believing the rape story.

or just sit her down and aske her to look you in the eye and for her to tell you the truth if she looks left she is lying! it has been proven! :) hope that helped

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Because... if she gives in to the emotion, then it becomes more "real', in my opinion.  If she admits that it bothers her, then it hurts so much more... and she may also be worried about your reaction... and maybe wants to avoid a large session on discussing the matter...

I mean, it could be anything.  I wouldn't immediately pass it off as lying... because again, many people take on a different reaction to certain things.  My boyfriend was telling me about how his dad was beating him, and he was laughing about the story.  My sister and I were talking about our mom, and how I never stuck around to get hit by a hanger to know if she was serious.  And then she said, "oh, I've been hit" and then we laughed about it.  Laughing and jokes are one way people relieve the tension on touchy situations...

but at the end of the day why would she lie about something like to you because she would know you wan to hurt them.

trust your instinctss and keep asking her questions and she might mess up by tell ing you something different

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