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I'm going away to college and trying to stay with my bf
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( crzymestchik )


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Has anyone stayed with their boyfriend or girlfriend when they went away to college? I'll be leaving for 6 years. I'll be home pretty often like maybe once a month. I just dont know how i'm going to deal with not seeing my bf everyday. Any suggestions?
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mich1


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I GOT ONE ADDD MEE !

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Raiku


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cheat on him

youll do it anyway

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latina554


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i'm doing it too, he's going to be living in a town 30 minutes away

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hurricanemisses


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I have heard that sometimes long distance relationships do not work, no matter how hard ya try to. But Idk. Maybe the both of you should let this be yall's test to see if the both of you could make it work with being away from each and staying faithful for a long period of time!!!


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twlight05


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stay with him
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branflakes



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get a new boyfriend maybe?
do you realize that there are over 140 MILLION men in the US?
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( crzymestchik )


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I don't want to find another bf. Ive been dating him for over 3 years now. I just want to know how to deal with not seeing him as much.
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TigressaLynnMae


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cheat on him

youll do it anyway

Don't listen to this asshat.

If you love him, and he loves you, love will know no boundaries.

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imjusttryin2beme


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If you are happy and want to stay with him then do. It is your choice. At first it might be hard because you will be adjusting to a new school and a new place. But it doesn't mean that things will be easier just because you are not with him.  I was in a long distance relationship when I first went to school and I am still with my boyfriend 3 years later. My advice is communicate about things when they come up and talk on the phone when you can. Not seeing each other every day gets easier. Good luck no matter what you do.  
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twilightdancer



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2 of my friends met their boyfriends in high school, and they went to different colleges than their boyfriends, so they were about 2-3 hours apart during the school year.
It's been a year, and both couples are doing great :)

So don't worry too much; if you both want to stay together, you will!

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Raiku


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Quote: from TigressaLynnMae at 2:54 pm on July 31, 2008
cheat on him

youll do it anyway

Don't listen to this asshat.

If you love him, and he loves you, love will know no boundaries.

but its true

women always cheat on guys

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mzRaye


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it depends. How long have you been with your boyfriend? and do both of you understand how hard its going to be and are still going to be willing to work on it and stay together?? If you two feel that way then it just miight work. Just be there for each other through the hardships. And if one feels a little lonely or feels like the other is straying, then don't get defensive and just tell them its nothing. Be there for each other and tell em that there's nothing to worry about and you're in this for the long run. But honestly, its hard to be in hard distance relationships. I think this might be a good time for both of you two explore the world. If you two are really meant to be, you'll end up together in the future.

good luck <3

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nik1


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Focus on your studies.  If he's worth having he will be worth waiting for.  If he's trustworthy and your relationship is good he will wait for you.

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jamesish


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Try someone new.  Sometimes it just to move on.

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