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but its true

women always cheat on guys

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Just as true as it is that men only think about sex, when it comes to their partners.

AKA: Stop generalizing. You're going to scare away the OP.

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Try someone new.  Sometimes it just to move on.

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Or, if you love someone, distance knows no boundaries, and, in fact, can make the love grow stronger.

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*Forever & Always...Yours*

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but its true

women always cheat on guys

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Just as true as it is that men only think about sex, when it comes to their partners.

AKA: Stop generalizing. You're going to scare away the OP.

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Try someone new. Sometimes it just to move on.

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Or, if you love someone, distance knows no boundaries, and, in fact, can make the love grow stronger.

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think i give a shit?

dont like the heat, stay out of the oven

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The darker the night becomes, the sun becomes that much brighter. -Mother 3

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think i give a shit?

dont like the heat, stay out of the oven

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You obviously give some sort of shit, or you wouldn't pretend that you know what you're talking about. You're generalizing, honey. Not all men are promiscuous pigs, and not all women are cheating whores. Believe it or not, there are quite a few men and women who are quite pleasant and pleasurable to be with.

It is you, my darling, who should 'stay out of the oven'. You don't like the fact that someone could last in a relationship? Okay. You've had some bad luck, assumingly. Don't take it out on us. You don't know the outcome of the OP's relationship. The only person the OP can answer to, and listen to, is herself, and her boyfriend. Only they can determine the outcome of this. Not you. Not I. And not my cat.

Stop giving advice on something you know nothing about.

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*Forever & Always...Yours*

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think i give a shit?

dont like the heat, stay out of the oven

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You obviously give some sort of shit, or you wouldn't pretend that you know what you're talking about. You're generalizing, honey. Not all men are promiscuous pigs, and not all women are cheating whores. Believe it or not, there are quite a few men and women who are quite pleasant and pleasurable to be with.

It is you, my darling, who should 'stay out of the oven'. You don't like the fact that someone could last in a relationship? Okay. You've had some bad luck, assumingly. Don't take it out on us. You don't know the outcome of the OP's relationship. The only person the OP can answer to, and listen to, is herself, and her boyfriend. Only they can determine the outcome of this. Not you. Not I. And not my cat.

Stop giving advice on something you know nothing about.

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i know a lot about relationships from mine, all of them ended with me being cheated on

whats not to stop the OP from doing it as well

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The darker the night becomes, the sun becomes that much brighter. -Mother 3

Both of us are scared to death that something might happen, and for the past couple weeks we'll constantly say to each other "Please, don't cheat on me."

I'm hoping that once we get settle into the college life, then things will be easier and maybe fit into a groove that will suit us both.  What I was told is the best thing to do is continuous communication.  Write letters, talk on the phone, visit on breaks..that sort of thing.  But at the same time, don't forget to get involved at your school.

Gah, I leave in a week and a half and I have no clue what is going to happen.  The most I can do now is reassure him everytime that everything will be okay between us.

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"Energizer Bunny arrested, charged with battery."

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I'm headed into the same boat. It scares the shit out of me, to be honest. He only lives about 10 minutes away now, and we see each other almost every day, and the days we aren't together feels like forever. We're a year into the relationship and he has a lot of trust issues from previous relationships. Us living an hour apart at the beginning I think is going to put a lot of strain on us, but I'm hoping we'll pull through it.

Both of us are scared to death that something might happen, and for the past couple weeks we'll constantly say to each other "Please, don't cheat on me."

I'm hoping that once we get settle into the college life, then things will be easier and maybe fit into a groove that will suit us both. What I was told is the best thing to do is continuous communication. Write letters, talk on the phone, visit on breaks..that sort of thing. But at the same time, don't forget to get involved at your school.

Gah, I leave in a week and a half and I have no clue what is going to happen. The most I can do now is reassure him everytime that everything will be okay between us.

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finally someone who actually understands and is in the same situation as me. i leave in a week and im so scared! i dont know what to do. both my bf and my laptops have bulit in webcams so we will be able to talk through that whenever we can. and im probably going to call him everyday for a while. i would suggest getting webcams because its helped us get through vacations away from each other, so hopefully it will help us get through college.

When I left for college I was in a relationship.  A good one but in retrospect not a great one.  On the first class on the first day of my second year my world changed when a new girl walked into class.  It wasn't a small attraction...it was huge.  That was three years ago and we are still together.  There is no doubt in my mind that we will be together forever.

Couples become comfortable with each other and often change the things that brought them together.  This makes for a situation for change that you cannot turn your head to.  You have to deal with relationships honestly.