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( Anonymous )
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there's this guy.
he's older than me by about ten years. i met him online... we've since met in person.
i really really like him. i mean, we're really compatable. it's like, he's the only person i've ever been around that i just click with. he makes me laugh, he's sweet, he always knows exactly what to say. i've recently been going through a lot in my life.. and he's been right there for me. always letting me cry on his shoulder, always making me feel soo much better.
the problem? he's married.
don't get any ideas... we're just really good friends.
he hasn't cheated on his wife. he doesn't want to. and i could never, ever in a billion years be "the other woman" he loves her very much, and even if he didn't... i wouldn't ask him to leave her for me. that's not the kind of person i am. and it's not the kind of person he is.
we just like each other a lot. it's getting to the point that we're falling for each other. i don't want to cause any kind of stress on his marriage... they're already stressed enough. it's getting bad for me, though. i'm already really emotionally attached to him, and it's getting worse. i like him more every time i talk to him... and i know nothing can ever happen.
how can i be friends with him when i like him so much? i don't want to totally cut him out of my life, but i'm not seeing any other option...
my heart is breaking...
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shut the fuck up and stop talking to him...
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lally
Wealthy Hobo
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Wow thats a hard decision. I dont know what to say.....
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7:42 pm on July 20, 2008 | Joined Dec. 2007 | 129 Days Active
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Miden
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Your getting into a dangerous situation here. You say you dont want to get emotionally attached and ruin their marriage, but yet you wont do anything to stop it. The best thing to do would be to just stop talking to him and find another friend to talk to. I dont know how old you are, but I'd imagin that what he is doing probably isn't legal anyway so just get away from that situation.
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7:43 pm on July 20, 2008 | Joined April 2007 | 266 Days Active
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i'm old enough that it's not illegal.
i'm not saying i won't do anything about it. i'm trying to decide what to do now. he's a really good person, and a good friend and i don't want to totally cut him out of my life...
i'm fully aware that may be the only way to resolve the situation, but i'll only do that as a last resort.
maybe i wasn't clear...
is there any way i can get over my feelings for him, while still retaining him as a friend?
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cptg
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you're falling for him, yet you don't want to put strain on his marriage. the only things that could happen is you seperating yourself from him or him ending up with you, i understand that either decision sucks but honestly you don't want to be THAT girl especially for a guy who you don't really know i mean come on, people can say or be anything on the internet.
you need to remove him from your life, you're just headed for a REALLY bad situation.
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10:09 pm on July 20, 2008 | Joined July 2008 | 28 Days Active
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i've told him that we're not going to be friends anymore... at least for now. i knew what i had to do and i was just avoiding it...
so, i told him that we need to put some distance between us.. take a break. he needs to work on his marriage and i need to get a fucking grip and find something else, anything else, to focus on.
so... once i get everything settled... maybe find a nice available man to date... stop having such intense feelings for him, then we can try the whole friends thing again. but as of now...
no communication. at all. whatsoever.
it sucks, but it was the right thing to do...
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11:33 am on July 22, 2008
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cptg
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you definatly did the right thing. especially for yoursefl
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shut the fuck up and stop talking to him... 
