My friend met the girl I like before I met her... so he saw her and he wants to lose his virginity to her... well the first time that I saw her I thought she was beautiful and I'm not a pervert at all.. in fact, I WANT TO wait until marriage to have sex. Don't yell at me for it, it's a personal decision. Anyways, my friend really wants to have sex and he cannot wait.. he's too desperate.. he's planning on acting all sweet around her to get her in bed and then he's just gonna disappear well he's really trying to talk to her all nice so he can have sex with her..
She's a very sweet girl, she's gorgeous and I like her as a person, not just for the body.
She has had a lot of abusive and mean ex boyfriends. I think all of the guys she's gone out with in the past have been bad guys. I don't want her to go through what she's been going through again (I'm talking about my friend who wants her for sex).
I wish I could tell her about my friend but my brother told me not to tell her anything. We all work at the same place (my brother, my sister in law, the girl i like, and I).
My brother and his wife are both involved in this plan, the plan is that my friend gets her by not looking like a mean guy but really they just want to get him some sex.
It makes me mad and I cried about this once when I was alone in my job.
I told my friend that I liked this girl already, but he just thinks that I like her looks and I just "agree that she's hot" but really I have a crush on her.
I don't know what to do but if something were to happen I'd wait until I'm 21 because that's when the girl I like turns 18. I think it would really be worth the wait.
I like her and my brother, his wife, and my friend know that I like her, they're just ignoring me and they think that I'm just a little jealous.. but if my friend has sex with that girl I will not ever respect him like I did before and I'd be really disappointed with the girl I have a huge crush on..
I always hope that she doesn't want him but today she told my brother "OMG, he's hot!!" and she was talking about my friend...
I like this girl A WHOLE LOT please help... I know there are more fish in the see but I can really picture myself being with this girl for a long time...
HELP!