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What do you do when you've been lied to the entire relationship?
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When your cell phone rings and it's your girlfriends number but a man is calling you to tell you
"he is her boyfriend", what do you do?
What do you do when you've been lied to the entire relationship?
give up on the woman you love? or fight for a girfriend who lied to you?
A whirlwind of emotions goes through your head, did she ever care?
how many times did she sleep with him? how long have they been going out?
do you even want her in your life anymore? I'm no quitter but if there was never any "real feelings" for me then why should I try to resolve this?
why couldent she tell me? and so on and so on and so........


ps. i still love her


4:50 am on Aug. 8, 2008
Bitner


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talk to her about it.

who knows whats going on


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twizlstikz


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how do you know this guy is telling the truth? might be a joke. talk to her

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JamesC

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talk to her and find out her side of the stoyr.
but in honesty ive found out that people never change but its obviously your choice.

but found out if its true first

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Dexus

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If she has been lying to you in my personal experience your best dumping her.
Otherwise you'll fight for her, and fight for her. Maybe winning the battles but you won't win the war, you'll loose eventually. They don't change.

Nothings worse than that, that moment of final realisation after all that fighting.
Not to mention your head will be filled with emotions, pain, anger, frustration, loss, still loving her and yet hating her.
It's maddening, I would know...

Post edited at 5:05 am on Aug. 8, 2008 by Dexus

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Tigerhawk


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I am in my right mind right now. But if I totally loved my girlfriend, I would beg for her to be MINE and mine only. But I would talk it out with the other boyfriend...I mean we're in this thing together, I think...

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Majo


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I think you should dump her. If she's capable of dating two guys at the same time, she's capable of cheating on you again later. And someone who can lie about something that big for so long...geez, I wouldn't want someone who can lie like that around...

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I know it's hard to hear from someone your girl has cheated on you. But you better off dumping her, it is what it is. No need to fix what is already bent, cause it can no longer become str8. It already tooken its form. However, its only you can sit down and see if she is willing to fight for. I done it, and realized just yesterday he wasnt the one for me. Are you welling to stay with her knowing she played you, and always have that against her. Or rather accepting it and move on. The cards are in your hands. Play then wisely. @ the end its your emotions thats being messed with.

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