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Replies: 25Last Post Aug. 10 10:12am by TigressaLynnMae

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Before you guys judge please take your time to understand where im coming from.

I met this sweet caring person about a week ago. But i find it to be funny. because we met on chatroom. Something i never do, because its unsafe. But i did and here is this very cute, guy talking to me. Given me his number on the dot, and offering to show himself on cam. Were both 20. Talk and slowly getting to know each other, juss 2 days ago he said he loves me...  when asked if he is serious, he says yes, because of my personality. He wants to work with me to trust him....

I know its unsafe, but seeing him on cam and his voice as well while he's on cam. Idk if i should see where it goes. It can be love soo soon? Or lust..

Please be openminded bout this


8:00 am on Aug. 10, 2008
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If you meet him, go with a friend.

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I would say a bit of lust, but you should meet up with him a few times? In an open public place and don't go to his house or anything, build physical trust.

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I think its lust. I dont believ that you can love someone that quick without knowing the real person.
But if you like him and thik it could possibly work, whats stoping you from going ahead with it

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Are you stupid! oNline Predators he will rape you steal from you and leave you

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MrNoOne


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Well I believe in the POSSIBILITY of online relationships. If he wants to meet you, make it a group date. Dont tell him your adress just yet and if you have just be alittle more cautious, not paranoid. Take these percautions and you should be fine.

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Nobody can tell you that this isn't love, because love is different for everyone. Maybe you really are in love with him.

When you meet someone on the internet, you only get to know the sides of them they want to show. In real life, there is no backspace to erase what someone might have said without thinking.

Just bear in mind he might not be what he says he is. I would talk with him for a lot longer before meeting him. (:

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Damn just meet someone in real life.

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meet him in person but don't go alone. Them see if you really love him

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well i don't know tbh i mean sadly i talk to guys in chatrooms a lot, I'm bored and they entertain me, and every single guy has said i love you within at least 2 or so days it never fails just be careful with it like don't go and meet him on your own he may be a psycho you never know with the weirdo's on the Internet

Post edited at 8:06 am on Aug. 10, 2008 by insane punk

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countryLuv


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well you are 20 years old this guy could be an abuser, rapist, and anything else in the world just be careful with what you do is all im saying and follow your heart but be cautious

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Quote: from EllaYeah at 8:01 am on Aug. 10, 2008

If you meet him, go with a friend.

If you seriously wish to do so...i know i have the same but its a year long thing and i want to see him to be sure if it will be the same

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Just make your you take the common pre-cautions when meeting him and don't do anything your gut tells you not to do.

I'm not going to judge you. Believe me, I know the ends and outs of relationship like that far too well. It can end very badly or it can blossom into a amazingly beautiful thing. Of course there is the chance that both of those things happen... but I'd rather not worry you and I'd say it's lust. Get to know him before you put your heart on the line.

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its unsafe. why do you think there are so many shows on chatrooms and meeting people online.
people are different when they're online as compared to in person.

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Well... its all a bit dodgy... but if you do decide to meet with him, make sure its in a public place like a cafe or something, and make sure a friend is with you.

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