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But just a quick reminder to not abandon the serious forum! The majority of these topics have zero replies.

I'm a bit of a hypocrite, because I'm not being too supportive either. I probably answer no more than 5 eHelps a day TOPS, but I'm doing the best I can. Lets all do what we can to help everyone... and not just slack off because we don't feel like it.

Another thing to bring up -- you know, I really think the problem isn't with the agendas of the current support leaders, but with the amount of support leaders, period. Looking over the list, there are only a few I'm not familiar with. There's a very small amount of us that are actually supportive anyway... and we're a very small team to be tackling such a large number.

If you see someone you think might make a good SL, don't hesitate to drop by their whiteboard and encourage them to submit an application. The more SL's we have the better.

I don't mean to pressure anyone of course. I know most of us are doing our best, and on this -- great job everyone! :D

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God, these topics do my nut in, because they don't change anything.

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Quote: from Nikki at 7:50 pm on July 9, 2008

God, these topics do my nut in, because they don't change anything.

I know.... but well, it's just a reminder really. What else can I do? I can answer them myself, but as I said, I'm already doing the best I can on that front.

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Aye, I know. I'm not having a go at you at all (:

Just that these topics are coming up SO often now, it's getting irritating. I replied to about eight eHelps earlier, but there were still another 20 or so for me to answer.

I think we need some sort of re-vamp of the SL/eHelp system, really.

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Quote: from Nikki at 5:50 pm on July 9, 2008

God, these topics do my nut in, because they don't change anything.
They just add to the pressure.

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Quote: from Nikki at 9:54 am on July 9, 2008

I think we need some sort of re-vamp of the SL/eHelp system, really.

The website has grown beyond a critical mass, I believe. eHelp, in it's current form, is irreparably damaged. While it works in a smaller community, the more people you add to the system, the more strained it becomes. When 1 eHelp can become 20 eHelps in a matter of 10 minutes (on a bad day), you're fucked.

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you guys have jobs other than answering repetitive eHelps so you'll get your 8 points and it'll stop flashing
I hate reading medicore applications put in by a semi intelligent, not really that helpful member that thinks because someone told them they'd be a good support leader, then they'll make support leader
all the helpful members, believe it or not, don't have to be support leaders, and many don't want to

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i feel like i should repeat what i said in the other topic.

*repeats*
so many of these topics...

we just go 'round in circles.

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Quote: from Khadgar at 5:57 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Nikki at 9:54 am on July 9, 2008

I think we need some sort of re-vamp of the SL/eHelp system, really.

 The website has grown beyond a critical mass, I believe. eHelp, in it's current form, is irreparably damaged. While it works in a smaller community, the more people you add to the system, the more strained it becomes. When 1 eHelp can become 20 eHelps in a matter of 10 minutes (on a bad day), you're fucked.


I agree. There aren't enough of us to cope with the stupidly large number of eHelps that sit there everyday. The eHelp system just doesn't work, I don't think. Like the Serious forum.

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Quote: from Khadgar at 7:57 pm on July 9, 2008

Quote: from Nikki at 9:54 am on July 9, 2008

I think we need some sort of re-vamp of the SL/eHelp system, really.

 The website has grown beyond a critical mass, I believe. eHelp, in it's current form, is irreparably damaged. While it works in a smaller community, the more people you add to the system, the more strained it becomes. When 1 eHelp can become 20 eHelps in a matter of 10 minutes (on a bad day), you're fucked.


Like I said. The ratio's just messed up. We need more support leaders.

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But, we can't make people become support leaders. And approving half-assed applicants just to make up numbers won't make a difference either. LiveWire has gotten too big to just be a support site now, which it was (to an extent anyway) when eHelp was formed.

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Quote: from Nikki at 6:12 pm on July 9, 2008

But, we can't make people become support leaders. And approving half-assed applicants just to make up numbers won't make a difference either. LiveWire has gotten too big to just be a support site now, which it was (to an extent anyway) when eHelp was formed.
So is there a solution for this at all then? It doesn't really seem like there's a band-aid solution for this, or anything remotely achievable.

Do we just have to come to the sad realisation that there are not enough dedicated people to answer the large volume of eHelps that we get?

Post edited at 10:22 am on July 9, 2008 by marshmellowman

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Ugh, I don't know. That's such a depressive way of looking at things, but this is an ongoing problem. It's not just over the past day or so - it's a problem that's there the whole time, and those eHelps won't vanish.

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hey nikki how about we delete the irrelevant ehelps (HOW DO I GET BUFF IN A WEEK) so it doesn't seem like so much


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Quote: from Nikki at 6:24 pm on July 9, 2008

Ugh, I don't know. That's such a depressive way of looking at things, but this is an ongoing problem. It's not just over the past day or so - it's a problem that's there the whole time, and those eHelps won't vanish.
I tend to have a pessimistic outlook on things. I know it's not a new problem, and it's not getting any easier.


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