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Would you abort it or save it?
If you knew your kid was gonna be disabled
Replies: 88 — Last Post Nov. 22 10:47pm by musicfan3

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Choice Votes Percent  
No 28 25%
Yes 38 34%
Depends 31 28%
1/4 12 11%
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baptistkid92

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Quote: from SacredSecrets09 at 3:20 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
I'd keep it...
they're people just like you are and if God chose you to have a child like that...
it only means that you're strong enough to handle the challenges.

this this this. i agree!

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Quote: from ManiacPenguins at 3:22 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from Permious at 3:20 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from ManiacPenguins at 3:19 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Abort that little shit.
 

 wow that was a bit much

How? I fucking hate retards.

you're more of a heartless cunt than i am. what the fuck is wrong with you?


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AcidSilence


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Quote: from Permious at 3:24 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from ManiacPenguins at 3:22 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from Permious at 3:20 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from ManiacPenguins at 3:19 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Abort that little shit.

  wow that was a bit much

 

 How? I fucking hate retards.

you're more of a heartless cunt than i am. what the fuck is wrong with you?

i completley agree. stop being such a narrow minded peice of shit. you fucking cunt.

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Quote: from Permious at 3:24 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from ManiacPenguins at 3:22 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from Permious at 3:20 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from ManiacPenguins at 3:19 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Abort that little shit.

  wow that was a bit much

 

 How? I fucking hate retards.

you're more of a heartless cunt than i am. what the fuck is wrong with you?

Fuck you. I don't give a fuck. I hate children, and even moreso, hate retarded children.

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Me I'm not so sure.

I think there are many cons such as the pain and humiliation at the hands of other people who just don't get it.  Having a disability myself I'd had people say things about me to others that weren't even true. Lots of them don't take the time to know me and in the place where I live your reputation is everything. People listen to rumors and things like that then base their opinion of you on that. Its sad but its true.


Other times people are nice to your face, but not behind your back. I've had many people that I thought were my friends, but then they say things about me that were mean. Often times they go tell my sister asking her questions like "Why's your sister so retarded?" but they never try to have a conversation with me.


Other times I'm convinced that they just want to use me. For example, my classes are so far I'm allowed a pass in case I get there late. At my school if you are late to class then you go to tardy hall. Sometimes kids will lie to the teachers and say that they were helping me when they wasn't so that she doesn't send them to tardy hall.

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Keep.
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Quote: from AcidSilence at 3:20 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
My first instinct was "what the fuck of course id fucking keep it."
But you then you think....
I dont want to put somebody through all the torment and hatred if i could stop it.
But its a life!
But what if they were in extreme pain and extremely depressed, and i was my fault?
But what if they werent...


Exactly.

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I think the worse part is if my kid with DS thought "What would I be able to accomplish in life if I didn't have DS" I do think about my disability like this a lot.

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Mattie17


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keep it

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To the people who say keep it are you saying that because you're against abortion or are you saying that with interest to the child? If you say keep it how would you cope?

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Miss Prophetess


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Keep it.

My cousin has Down's Syndrome.  She is very well cared for and loved, and she's very happy, always smiling.  She graduated high school (not a special high school, either...she was in public school) and has a job.  It's a great success story.

It's hard raising a child with Down's Syndrome, but the raising just shows more love if we're willing to put more into it than we would have to for a normal child.  It wouldn't change my love for that child if he/she had a disability, either.

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i'd abort it. out of all disabilities, i hate retardation.

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Thanks for all the replies everyone!


Looks like from the poll results abortion is the majority opinion..

Post edited at 2:28 pm on Sep. 17, 2008 by musicfan3

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womendontlikeme


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Quote: from ManiacPenguins at 3:22 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from Permious at 3:20 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Quote: from ManiacPenguins at 3:19 pm on Sep. 16, 2008
Abort that little shit.
 

 wow that was a bit much

How? I fucking hate retards.

Damn! You must hate yourself!

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Chava


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It wouldn't be easy but I would never abort a child.

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