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Replies: 99 Last Post Sep. 25 11:19am by Forever Angel
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( prisoner of hss )
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Quote: from Blank black at 12:38 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from prisoner of hss at 5:37 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from Blank black at 12:29 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Then fuck off, sweetie? 
why dont you just be honest and stop saying this site strives to offer supportive atmospheres 
Why don't you just be honest and admit that you need this website, despite your protestations to the contrary? 
okay i will be honest i really need this website thats why i come back
------- guns kill guns people kill people
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monkeydoodle77
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For some I guess. But I just come here for the laughs and to ask random questions.
------- "Oh, I'm with the vampires, of course." "Is she even Italian?"-Rosalie "Her name is Bella"- Emmett. I :heart: that movie!
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Blank black
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Quote: from prisoner of hss at 5:39 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from Blank black at 12:38 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from prisoner of hss at 5:37 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from Blank black at 12:29 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Then fuck off, sweetie? 
why dont you just be honest and stop saying this site strives to offer supportive atmospheres 
Why don't you just be honest and admit that you need this website, despite your protestations to the contrary? 
okay i will be honest i really need this website thats why i come back 
And I'll be honest, there is support here still. Sure, you get a few shitty replies, but that's always been the case.
------- Nobody ever loses their memory. It just gets locked away like the mad woman in the attic. Occasionally you hear her scream, But you don't dare unlock the door and look in.
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( prisoner of hss )
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Quote: from Blank black at 12:42 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from prisoner of hss at 5:39 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from Blank black at 12:38 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from prisoner of hss at 5:37 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from Blank black at 12:29 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Then fuck off, sweetie? 
why dont you just be honest and stop saying this site strives to offer supportive atmospheres 
Why don't you just be honest and admit that you need this website, despite your protestations to the contrary? 
okay i will be honest i really need this website thats why i come back 
And I'll be honest, there is support here still. Sure, you get a few shitty replies, but that's always been the case. 
but it doesnt strive to offer support any more theres just a few poor bastards who think that they can make a difference by giving sugarcoated shit to depressed kids
------- guns kill guns people kill people
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Blank black
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Sometimes all you can give is a bit of sugarcoating, insisting it will get easier.
------- Nobody ever loses their memory. It just gets locked away like the mad woman in the attic. Occasionally you hear her scream, But you don't dare unlock the door and look in.
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Just Waiting Here
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It ultimately comes down to this. A site is composed of people, and a forum site has no ability to offer information on its own without the people. Now, some people come on here for advice, but have no ability to offer any form of support. Other people come on here because they find it amusing. Certain PEOPLE strive to be supportive, but I can't say the same for the majority. You're bound to get people from all spectrums. Just because there are people that have no concern or no interest in helping others doesn't mean that everyone is the same. Who knows, maybe if more people like you would spend less time complaining about it and more time 'supporting', there wouldn't be this problem. Because you, just as I am, are part of this site, and expected to be part of the support. If you expect only support leaders to be part of the support, then they do what they are supposed to when they can, so I see no grounds on which you can complain.
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greatescape11
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Doesn't it suck how you are FORCED to be a member here. I mean this site went to hell a whiel ago but since we aren't allowed to close our accounts and move on with life....I think sitting around bitching is an excellent strategy
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amiee
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oh my god quit whining about this place.
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( prisoner of hss )
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Quote: from greatescape11 at 12:44 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Doesn't it suck how you are FORCED to be a member here. I mean this site went to hell a whiel ago but since we aren't allowed to close our accounts and move on with life....I think sitting around bitching is an excellent strategy 
it helps pass the time
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Just Waiting Here
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Quote: from prisoner of hss at 9:48 am on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from Just Waiting Here at 12:47 pm on Sep. 20, 2008
Quote: from prisoner of hss at 9:43 am on Sep. 20, 2008
but it doesnt strive to offer support any more theres just a few poor bastards who think that they can make a difference by giving sugarcoated shit to depressed kids 
Support doesn't mean fixing the problem. No one can fix someone else's problems, because it all relies on the individual. I would be crazy to think I could 'fix' anything. Support is giving an alternate perspective on things, a view given from someone who does NOT have emotions to cloud more logical and rational thinking. Support for some is just having someone to talk to, even if it's about nothing serious. Support for others is finding someone else that may be able to understand. Support for others is finding out what the majority thinks so that they can join the band wagon. And for others, support is finding someone that can fix things. But maybe those people are just too unwilling to recognize that at the end of the day, it all comes down to THEM, and until they put forth the effort, there's not much else to expect. 
whatever i was using colliqual terms i dont need a dictioanry 
Haha... I love how you completely missed the point. And I see at no point what you were using that was a colloquial term, and how that alters my response in any form :).
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Let Love In
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Old news.
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