I just moved into halls the other day and I really don't like anyone here. Everyone seems to know everyone and it's as if they're purposely ignoring me. They hardly ever try to talk to me. I make myself appear approachable, smiling and trying to get my input in but no-one is really interested. I've already taken to staying in my room most of the day. I want to go out and meet people and try to find someone that has common interests with me or even just to be able to get these people to include me or want to talk to me.
Any ideas on getting conversation going amongst total strangers? I'm not that confident to just jump in and be loud and trying to get my input in... and I've already made a first impression that i'm kinda quiet and reserved.
HELP!
12:35 pm on Sep. 21, 2008
MystiqueBeauty16
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Jump in one of their conversations and casually mention that you love sex.
Eventually someone will come and find you.
------- The mind may forget, but the heart always remembers.
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deltarep038
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find out wat they r interested in.
------- hustle & flow
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maxxie
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what kind of interests THAT count do you have?
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( Anonymous )
It's still at this stage where it's always in big groups of people at one time. Not smaller ones and even then, people won't let me join in a 3-way conversation
12:39 pm on Sep. 21, 2008
( Anonymous )
I'm from a different country than 99% of them so they're looking upon me as an outcast or something.
I should find some other international students. But what about the people I'm living with, they're not international. How can include myself more?
Post edited at 12:41 pm on Sep. 21, 2008 by Anonymous
12:40 pm on Sep. 21, 2008
maxxie
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hey what are your interests??? also if they don't want to have anything to do with you then just fuck them.
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( Anonymous )
I know I should just tell them to fuck off but I've to live with them for the year. :(
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