Quote: from Anonymous at 11:33 pm on Oct. 12, 2008
I have been dating this one boy for about two months now, but recently I met someone who I just fell for immediately and have been talking to ever since. I don't know what to do.
I feel like my boyfriend isn't giving me attention like he used to, but thinking about it logically it is probably just because the novelty of the relationship is fading off. I really like my boyfriend and we have a lot of fun together. But this other boy has me so into him and excited.
Should I tell my boyfriend? I mean if things went further with the other guy I know that I should but what if it just fades off there after the novelty goes away, too? Then I would have just wasted all of that. IDDDKKK 
If you have let yourself have such a connection with the new guy, its only going to get stronger if you keep hanging out with him. You have to decide which of the two you want to be with becuase its not fair for you to even have feelings for this guy when you are dating someone, not fair at all. Talk to your bf and ask him about the attention, ask him he's still into you, cause it shouldnt dye off of novelty? There are some people who are as into each other on their wedding day as the day they met, that is not just something that wears off. If its a strong enough connection you have with someone, it stays there and he shouldnt just one day decide he doesnt want to give you attention cause you have been together a few months. If you like your bf stop seeing the other guy. OR tell your bf you think u have feelings for someone else and want to expore them. Either way you HAVE to do something about it sooner than later. its not fair, dont be one of those girls who leads on both boys and cant make up her mind. 
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